I AM PUTTING THIS UNDER GAY CULTURE CUZ I MIGHT GET BETTER RESPONSES CUZ NO1 WANTS TO

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mindy

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HELP ME!!!? I ripped on him awhile back cuz we developed feelings for each other and he just got out of a horrible relationship. My feelings turned to anger I was so mad. We have been friends for two years. We work together and he hasn't talked to me for weeks. I did apologize.The other day I texted demanding to talk to him telling him how sorry I was. He told me to leave him alone that I was crazy and needed help. I told him no, I am not crazy, I was emotional, I am sorry and that I was friends with him for a long time and I feel bad for acting the way that I did. He told me to leave him alone. So, I go home and cry all night and go to work the next day and he was standing right next to the door that people walk in. He usually stands way on the other in for breaks. But I have to walk in and he gives me a dirty look so I just turn my head and keep walking. The same thing happened again later in the day. I did the same thing. I avoided him in passing and ignored him the same way he ignores me. I can't take no more. Yes, I acted clingy, needy and literally stupid and I would probably have been mad too but me and this man were totally attractd to one another have been friends for two years. So, I will continue to ignore him. Please don't ask me to apologize again. I will look like a literal looney toon froot loop!! Am I taking the right approa
Well, that is rather rude Blue Boxer Shorts and quite prejudice cuz people with straight problems have the same problems as non-straight. Therefore, this is reverse prejudice and I would help you if you needed it!!!!!!
 
C'mon now, let's not step on eachother's toes.
Hetero&homosexuals do roughly share the same problems.


Yes, I think you're taking the right approach. If he doesn't want to try as hard as you did, then put it down. I'm not saying you've wasted your time, because you learn from even the most seemingly pointless things. But you can spend it on something or someone more fulfilling.

No matter how much you like eachother, sometimes it just doesn't work out. Move on, there are obviously other people who will and can return those feelings.

When he's ready to step up, if he does, give him a listen. Do the one thing he could've done for you. Make it known that unlike him, you listened despite the tension and negativity. :)
 
C'mon now, let's not step on eachother's toes.
Hetero&homosexuals do roughly share the same problems.


Yes, I think you're taking the right approach. If he doesn't want to try as hard as you did, then put it down. I'm not saying you've wasted your time, because you learn from even the most seemingly pointless things. But you can spend it on something or someone more fulfilling.

No matter how much you like eachother, sometimes it just doesn't work out. Move on, there are obviously other people who will and can return those feelings.

When he's ready to step up, if he does, give him a listen. Do the one thing he could've done for you. Make it known that unlike him, you listened despite the tension and negativity. :)
 
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