OneConfusedNDN
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We have been down this road a few times, but this is the first move out while I am pregnant. We have been together over 4 years, engaged, even set a day to get married. The getting pregnant thing was even his idea! He knew I wanted a child of my own and one day he just wanted to finally make one. Things go real good with us for a long time. Then first argument, normally about the same thing as before, he tucks tail and runs, claiming I told him leave when I actually said "I am sick of this same stuff". Yesterday was the typical same argument and then he said he was leaving. And then he tried twisting it saying I said to leave. I was actually on my way to work and I immediately called in to come home to work out problems. But he disregarded this and still packed. All he cared about was getting his stuff. I still love him. I miss him actually. I hate that my baby, OUR baby, will grow up not knowing his or her daddy. So now I am at the point of I do not know what to do. Do I forget about him? Do I keep him informed of the dr appts in hopes he shows up? Or do I just plan to either do child support or remove his parental rights? Any advice would be great because I am sure there are many of you who have gone through this or are going through this. By the way, I am 14 weeks and 2 days along.