i am pregnant 7 weeks and i hubby and i discussed abortion, then i changed my

Lovely

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mind and now hes mad. mean huh? i dont want another baby right now.we have a 14 month old. we are a military family and the baby is due around the time we are supposed to PCS (permanent change of station) and its going to postpone us getting the baby their shots, a passport and all that stuff. well my husband and i discussed abortion on saturday afternoon, i told him i would research it. i changed my mind and cant possibly live with that decision the rest of my life so now hes mad at me. he didnt say directly that he doesnt want the kid but his actions show that. what should i do
 
First off, congratulations on the pregnancy. However inconvenient it may seem right now, it's a blessing. Although you may not think it's the right time, there's definately a reason for it happening and you can never tell what purpose that baby has... Abortion should never really be an option. No matter the situation, it's never the baby's fault. Adoption is definately something that should be considered if you are not able to have a baby right now in your life because it will be a great blessing to another family.

If your husband is not supportive of your decision to keep your baby, then that's his problem. Abortion is thought of so lightly today especially for men. Babies can feel as early as a few weeks. The first heartbeat they get is an indication that they can now function and feel. They have performed tests on babies while doing an abortion that indicates high levels of stress and pain. An abortion involves sticking a suction tube in you and using it to rip limbs off of the baby's body. They then sever the head from the body last, allowing the baby to live through and feel everything up until the last step. The doctor then has to count every limb and body part that was torn off to make sure they got all the pieces out of you.

A baby at 7 weeks of age may not be developed much, but it is still living and can still feel this process of abortion. Please try talking to your husband and letting him know the other options out there.

I'm sorry he is not being supportive. I hope everything goes good for you. In my opinion, killing your unborn child is no different than torturing and killing your 14 month old. Maybe your husband will realize that.
 
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