I am married with children but would like to join the British Army?

[Laura P]

I am married to a wonderful man who is totally behind me on this decision he was in the army before I met him and so he knows better than anyone if I could do it and what it entails. I have looked into joining the QARANC and think that I could cope with it, im not stupid I know it will be hard but my children have two parents and my husband wants to be there for them more as he has missed out with them He is a long distance lorry driver and is only home on weekends. I know if I talk to my family they will not see the bigger picture and just say don't join. However, I just wanted other opinions please