I am in a relationship with a man who is very interested in sex. He states the "Sex is..

[Susan]

...his sport". We've been? Married less than a year, I find this focus superficial and not deeply meaningful to me. It is like I avoid him because I know the first thing he will do is grab me and make some sexual move. He does it a lot, interrupting whatever I am doing to get his squeeze. Also, he has some strange ideas such as "People live on the dark side of the moon" and that there is an "Enemy after him", so he is very hyper vigilantt. He also wants me around as much as possible and even stated that he didn't want me to go anywhere at night because I had plenty of time to do that during the day. I don't work. He wanted me to stay home. Also, he states that "You are MY wife!" I am supposed to give him sex because of that. I was single for 10 years after a long marriage. This confinement, these attitudes seem intolerable to me. We went to counseling for a few sessions but quit as the therapist was not effective. I don't think I can drag him to counseling again. It is like living with a needy child and some people have said that he has a "personality disorder" and that is very difficult to change.. thanks for your replies..He is a great provider and can be fun at intervals.. I think I need to end it soon. I am 59 and he is 63. Financial concerns are an issue for me if I leave him, but I suppose that is no reason to stay either.