I am in a kind of friends with benefits situation, would it be a bad idea to share

my feelings? I'm "friends" with this guy. We've kissed lots, and are talking about doing more. It started off as a big crush and I'm very attracted to him, but I'm scared of becoming attached and actually falling for him if we do take things further physically. (I know I'm prone to that)

Would it be a bad idea to share my feelings with him and say "look, I'm afraid that I'm going to fall for you. What happens if I do?" Is that going to ruin my chances for him to feel more because I'll come off as clingy or is it a good idea to be more open and honest with him?
 
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