I am gay but I went to a lap dancing club last night and it was complex?

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It wasn't really sexy to me, but I had a lapdance from a nice pretty girl, and I admit it was nice to be fussed over.

Anyway the complex part is I really got off on the fact It made me want my boyfriend more, not the actual breasts... is this very weird?
I have always found the forbiddeness of being with guys quite exotic and exciting.

I have nothing against women and have been with several, but I think I am mainly attracted to men.
lol... ok my question is, is that very strange?

do you think it means I am bisexual
 
Like you said, it was nice to be fussed over. Erotic touching is erotic touching, you're only human.
 
You say that you're gay, and that the experience made you like your boyfriend more and that you dont like boobies- whats the problem, yes you are gay.
 
So what's your question?

edit: It doesn't mean you're bisexual if you aren't attracted to the women - everyone likes to be fussed over. I see where you're coming from though - I'm gay but I find lapdancing slightly erotic. You hit the nail on the head with the "forbidden" part - that's always been a massive appeal for me.
 
according to the kinsey scale, a very small percentage of the population are 100% straight or 100%homosexual. many people fall somewhere in between.

it sounds to me like you're about a 4-5 on the kinsey scale, which means you prefer men, but you can still entertain erotic thoughts about women, which is perfectly normal.
 
according to the kinsey scale, a very small percentage of the population are 100% straight or 100%homosexual. many people fall somewhere in between.

it sounds to me like you're about a 4-5 on the kinsey scale, which means you prefer men, but you can still entertain erotic thoughts about women, which is perfectly normal.
 
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