but has ask me if i am open to a 3 some (i ve try new things with him ) and the trust and gentleness is there he's very caring about my needs and pleasure i don;t know anyone he said maybe the x wife i would be game to that knowing its been over for a long long time she is re married but also always wanted a 3 somes i dont think i would be thearted by her still is it something he really wants ot just think it don"t all guys dream of a 3 some i don"t want him to lose respect but he has brought me along way in the sex dept and thought me to open up relax and so so so much pleasure at age 50 i never dream sex could be we have ,i just want to please him like no one else ever has