Lord Voldemor
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Hi, I think I am paranoid about sex:
I am a 20 years old virgin male and afraid of the thing... here's why:
1) STDs can still be transmitted using a condom, it may leak, break or whatever, plus certain STDs like pap virus (HPV) are transmitted through mere skin to skin contact, and they can cause penis cancer and cervix cancer :-/
One might argue my girlfriend and I could take some tests to be sure... ok...
2) pregnancy. I learnt condoms are only 85% efficient at preventing pregnancy !!!!
I do not know if my girlfriend would want to take the pill at the same time for more protection...
And, suppose she end up getting pregnant, how do I know that she is really going to do an abortion??
She says she obviously would but I read several comments by girls who simply could not do it !!! They have changed their minds and decided to keep the baby...
I don't wanna be a father huh.
Do you think I'm paranoid? How do you deal with these 2 issues and what would you do if things you/your girfriend bacame pregnant?
I am a 20 years old virgin male and afraid of the thing... here's why:
1) STDs can still be transmitted using a condom, it may leak, break or whatever, plus certain STDs like pap virus (HPV) are transmitted through mere skin to skin contact, and they can cause penis cancer and cervix cancer :-/
One might argue my girlfriend and I could take some tests to be sure... ok...
2) pregnancy. I learnt condoms are only 85% efficient at preventing pregnancy !!!!
I do not know if my girlfriend would want to take the pill at the same time for more protection...
And, suppose she end up getting pregnant, how do I know that she is really going to do an abortion??
She says she obviously would but I read several comments by girls who simply could not do it !!! They have changed their minds and decided to keep the baby...
I don't wanna be a father huh.
Do you think I'm paranoid? How do you deal with these 2 issues and what would you do if things you/your girfriend bacame pregnant?