i am about 9 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend and i discussed abortions as an option.?

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well here's our situation, my hobby is currently out of a job and has been for quit sometime so i'm the provider. i am currently working 2 jobs. i already have a 2 year old son (whom is not his). i am going back to college in the fall semester. seeing how i've taken 2 years off due to the birth of my son. we are not financially or mentally ready to have another baby. i know most people are going to come up with some bullshit saying that its another life, and it should not be our decision to end it..and that it took two ppl and we should have been more responsible, i know this because i thought the same way before i found myself in this situation. and adoptions is not an option for me. i simply can not have a little being in me for 9 months have a connection and just give it away. ive been thinking long and hard about my decisions and simply can not come up with a correct one for me and my hobby.
just to add for the dull minded this is my thoughts and your opinions topic. simply the question is what is your thoughts what is your experiences, and what would you do in such a situation?
this topic is in this catagory because it is about my pregnancy and i have not yet come up with my solution. i am not just some person that randomly has abortions. i have a child of my own whom i love and wouldn't trade for the world. so please don't judge me and my opinions based on your ignorances.
keep in mind this is a open discussion and i want to hear all opinions but please in a grown up manor.
 
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