Emile Stonewall
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more. Advice appreciated.? I am 18 years old and I am a housewife literally. I have been married now for three and a half years to my husband and I am very happy with my life. I enjoy my married life a lot but sometimes I get a little just wanting more from this life. My husband works early in the mornings and gets up at 5:30 am every morning to eat breakfast and go to work and works till 4 in the evening and comes home.
My routine is the same. I get up at 4:45 am before him, lite the coals in the kitchen because it a hardwood floor and cold outside at this time of year, cook breakfast so it will be on the table when he wakes up, talk to him, hes goes to work, I go back to bed until around 10 and then get up and hang around the house until he comes in, cook dinner, we spend the evening together most of the time, and then go to bed by 9:30 and then the same routine. Sometimes I feel like an automatic robot.
As I said I am happy with my life and I love being a housewife and me and my husband, who is 21, are very much in love. His job, which is for the local timber mill cutting up wood, pays pretty good money so we don't have any debt or money troubles and we get along most of the time. Our sex life is still active even after three years. We have been going out on weekends most of the time to town or to visit friends or the park to hang out and I have a lot of friends. Its just I cant explain what more I want. I guess sometimes living in a rural area, in a rented old house gets to me and the area is pretty backwoods compared to where I was raised (when we got married my husband got his job up here and got the house pretty cheap so we moved up here). I like being closer to a town and not just in a small cluster of houses in the mountains. Our house is pretty old, no central heating or cooling, just a fireplace, coal furnace, and a window air unit.
So what could be wrong that makes me desire more? Any ideas?
For those who will do the math. I dont want to hear junk or slagging me for getting married at 14, almost 15. and my husband being 18. Its none of your buisness and I love my husband. I was pregnant and my mom signed the permission form and so did a Judge. I lost my baby two weeks after I got married and had another miscarriage this year. My life hasnt been easy ride but I am happy. So hateful comments towards me for being a young wife will be ignored.
For the record I have no children. I miscarried twice.
First answer, its not selfishness. I just simply have heard everything you typed before and it dont matter. Whats done is done and I am happy. I want to hear some advice that relates to now. I can take critique but when it comes to things that happened years ago its just stupid because it changes nothing.
George, i didnt really miss out on much. Sure I left school early but I have friends, me and my husband go out a lot on weekends to visit friends and hang out, I am down at the local hall on Sundays at lot hanging out. I havent missed out on too much. So keep your as*hole comments to yourself.
My mother is not an idiot. She knew I was doing the right thing. And my parents are happily married and have been for nearly 20 years now.
George your really are cold hearted. I am not worthless.
I do a lot. I lite the fires early morning to warm the house before my husband gets up, I clean and cook our meals, I make sure bills and such are paid, I go to the market to shop often, and I keep the house. I am a very big asset to my marriage and my husband loves me very much and brings me home flowers and stuff a lot and tells me how much he appericates all I do around here. So no I am not worthless.
My routine is the same. I get up at 4:45 am before him, lite the coals in the kitchen because it a hardwood floor and cold outside at this time of year, cook breakfast so it will be on the table when he wakes up, talk to him, hes goes to work, I go back to bed until around 10 and then get up and hang around the house until he comes in, cook dinner, we spend the evening together most of the time, and then go to bed by 9:30 and then the same routine. Sometimes I feel like an automatic robot.
As I said I am happy with my life and I love being a housewife and me and my husband, who is 21, are very much in love. His job, which is for the local timber mill cutting up wood, pays pretty good money so we don't have any debt or money troubles and we get along most of the time. Our sex life is still active even after three years. We have been going out on weekends most of the time to town or to visit friends or the park to hang out and I have a lot of friends. Its just I cant explain what more I want. I guess sometimes living in a rural area, in a rented old house gets to me and the area is pretty backwoods compared to where I was raised (when we got married my husband got his job up here and got the house pretty cheap so we moved up here). I like being closer to a town and not just in a small cluster of houses in the mountains. Our house is pretty old, no central heating or cooling, just a fireplace, coal furnace, and a window air unit.
So what could be wrong that makes me desire more? Any ideas?
For those who will do the math. I dont want to hear junk or slagging me for getting married at 14, almost 15. and my husband being 18. Its none of your buisness and I love my husband. I was pregnant and my mom signed the permission form and so did a Judge. I lost my baby two weeks after I got married and had another miscarriage this year. My life hasnt been easy ride but I am happy. So hateful comments towards me for being a young wife will be ignored.
For the record I have no children. I miscarried twice.
First answer, its not selfishness. I just simply have heard everything you typed before and it dont matter. Whats done is done and I am happy. I want to hear some advice that relates to now. I can take critique but when it comes to things that happened years ago its just stupid because it changes nothing.
George, i didnt really miss out on much. Sure I left school early but I have friends, me and my husband go out a lot on weekends to visit friends and hang out, I am down at the local hall on Sundays at lot hanging out. I havent missed out on too much. So keep your as*hole comments to yourself.
My mother is not an idiot. She knew I was doing the right thing. And my parents are happily married and have been for nearly 20 years now.
George your really are cold hearted. I am not worthless.
I do a lot. I lite the fires early morning to warm the house before my husband gets up, I clean and cook our meals, I make sure bills and such are paid, I go to the market to shop often, and I keep the house. I am a very big asset to my marriage and my husband loves me very much and brings me home flowers and stuff a lot and tells me how much he appericates all I do around here. So no I am not worthless.