...why details below? basically this may sound stupid but if i dont care about my grades they get good or just ok and if i start to care and stop playing for some reason my grades get worse i dont know why i dont know if i just really dont care or if when it comes down to it im to lazy or its just not for me i really dont have any influence to help me do good and my mom dosnt give me any it doesnt work every year by Christmas i say im going to get good grades so i can get what i want for Christmas but b4 i say that my grades was ok then they got worse can you tell me what should i do to help