I am 14 years old and never had sex. But when I do, why is it going to bleed and hurt?

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Your Still young and have plenty of time to grow up.... Trust me im young to 16 and i kind of do regret But if u want to know why its becausire girls have a hymen which is like a thin piece of skin. and when have sex it breaks. But not every girl bleeds i know i didnt
 
It always doesn't bleed. But most of the time it does.
Because your "Cherry" will pop when it goes in which will make you start to bleed, although if you wear a tampon it could already have been broken.

Cherry=Hymn.
 
It doesnt always hurt , my first time didnt hurt and i hardly bled at all. I think it depends on the person.
 
Well, the more you worry the more it is going to hurt. But the thing that hurts is "breaking" your hymen. It may bleed, and for some girls they won't. It may be already broken, if you wear tampons or riding your bike or horse back riding can break your hymen. But if your partner is gentle and is patient. It shouldn't hurt so bad. Just make sure you're ready.
 
oh sweetie, yeah it probably will bleed and it def will hurt. it will hurt the first few times you do it, i would 7 or 8 is when it is better. unfortunatly at your young age you won't really enjoy it yet you would probably be better off doing oral sex. its just the way our bodies are made. a lot of young girls may think they are enjoying it but are actually biologically made to enjoy it. once your body matures it will feel better. please dont start having sex tell you are ready to have a baby. in a lot of ways oral sex is waaaayyy better than regular sex anyways. but if you are set on having sex, it will help ease the pain a bit if you finger yourself or have your bf using like two fingers to stretch you out better
 
lol as long as you are careful and have a gentle partner you're not going to bleed to death or anything dont worry too much! the pain wont last that long either!
 
When you have sex for the first time your Hymen is gonna brake, yes it will hurt a bit and you may bleed a little but it is not terribly painful unless you do it at young age, the younger you are the grater the pain will be, wait till you are at least 20.
 
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