Urm ever heard of contraception? Thats the problem with kids these days, u dont give a cheese when ur having sex, its not till after u realise what a doo doo uve made. Im not having a go at u personally, im having a go at kids in general that think its cool to have sex. In the UK papers this past month, a 13 year old boy has had a baby girl with a 15 year old girl. The nation is appalled. I think its appalling that ur only twelve and pregnant, but ur mum is going to be told by someone else or find out when u start growing if u decide to keep the child. She needs to know if from u. U have to tell her first, then tell the dad, or the other way round. Whatever u feel more comfy with. All i can say is good luck, and god speed coz ur going to need it