Husband's Insecurity...Need Some Guidance?

[katiebNH]

I recently watched Eat. Pray. Love. It was an enjoyable movie that I would love to watch with my husband but I feel I can’t. I’m really not sure how to explain this but whenever I see movies that tend to have any masculine males or males who are shown half naked, he tends to make comments that make me feel uncomfortable. Things have gone far as him getting angry and accusing me of seeing movies because I wanted to “check out” some guy and that was my reason to watch. This also occurs when we go grocery shopping and hit the underwear isle in the men’s section or at times when someone he believes to be the masculine, muscular, attractive male is around me or passes by me, he questions whether I was looking at him/it or not. Things have been dormant lately but I still feel anxiety about this. It hinders me being able to be myself in way since I have to be careful of what I watch with him. I am a mature adult who would like to enjoy a mature relationship with my husband. What do I do? Any advice or comments? This is really hurting my level of intimacy with him.