My husband's ex wife and himself have a 10 year old son with apergers (aka an autism) She is active duty in the national guard and has been married for a year to a man who is also active duty and just came back from his tour. The child new his step father for only 5 months before he deployed and his mother always depends on her sister to watch the child instead of allowing us the oppurtunity to get him. The court papers state that my husband and his ex shall share joint custody and he should have the child on Thanksgiving break. which I looked up his school calender and it says hes off the wed before thanksgivig and hte friday after. So that means we should have hime all 3 of those days. Well we were trying to be fair and told her we would pick him up at 6 pm on wed have him all day thanksgiving and return him fri at 6pm becuase t is not one of our weekends. Do you think it is only fair that we have the right to get her in contempt of court. And while we are there in court could we also mention her moving in the next few months to colorado? we live all the way in sc thats really far away and a big change for a child who is autistic and has always seen his father when the mother abandoned him for 3 years and was never really around until she got married again.
No she will not talk nicely to us we have tried numerous times. She has a really bad attitude and she thinks because she is in the military anything she says or does goes no ifs ands or buts about it. I think by time they are wanting to move they will both be out of the military she wants to move there to raise horses. What can happen to her if she is found in contempt of court while in the military? We dont even know if her new husband really knows anything about what the court papers say we would try to go around her to talk to him but the problem is that we have yet to meet him she will not allow us to meet.
No she will not talk nicely to us we have tried numerous times. She has a really bad attitude and she thinks because she is in the military anything she says or does goes no ifs ands or buts about it. I think by time they are wanting to move they will both be out of the military she wants to move there to raise horses. What can happen to her if she is found in contempt of court while in the military? We dont even know if her new husband really knows anything about what the court papers say we would try to go around her to talk to him but the problem is that we have yet to meet him she will not allow us to meet.