ArmyWife27
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almost 5yrs in the army, Deployed & returned sept 09. Since then hes became someone I dnt know. Wat our probs come down to is his lack of emotions. He says he just cnt feel anything anymore. He feels cold and unsatisfied. Hes told me before he felt like something was watching him n hearing voices. He does things, like talkto girls, that i truly believe he regrets, n dnt kno why he does it. Yet it happens again. Says something just comes over him n its a diff him. Hes impulsive. Wants us to work but he continues his behavior. I think he really does, just cnt help it. Maybe im naive but maybe its a ser prob. A therapist said he had ptsd n get checked for it.
Other than a base hospital what can we do? After a year of being neglected n cheated on i think i should leave. Or is that unfair if he does have mental issues? Says im great n he loves me more than anything, he wants it to wrk. But i cnt keep giving him chances.
If its ruined our marriage can he get out the army if he chooses to, with a ptsd diagnosis? Any benefits or temp pay with a discharge? Is emotional death something he can recover from? He used to be so sweet- he just lost his gma & gpa n couldnt shed a tear. He feels nothing he says.
Sry so long! I could write a book tho!
Other than a base hospital what can we do? After a year of being neglected n cheated on i think i should leave. Or is that unfair if he does have mental issues? Says im great n he loves me more than anything, he wants it to wrk. But i cnt keep giving him chances.
If its ruined our marriage can he get out the army if he chooses to, with a ptsd diagnosis? Any benefits or temp pay with a discharge? Is emotional death something he can recover from? He used to be so sweet- he just lost his gma & gpa n couldnt shed a tear. He feels nothing he says.
Sry so long! I could write a book tho!