Husband Mood Swings...please no stupid answers?

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My husband has constant mood swings when it comes to me. We've been married a little over a year now and it seems that every time I mention any of my friends, or past friends (from high school for example) he blows up! He really says hurtful things and alto ugh i want to tell myself that he doesn't mean it how it comes out, at times he just goes too far. He grew up in a household where his father nearly killed his mother, and i know for a fact allot of his anger projects on that, so my questions is does anyone know maybe how I should approach him with this issue?? Thanks allot
 
He needs to seek counseling for his deep unrooted issues. I understand he has a bad past but that's not an excuse. You are what you make your life out to be. He is living too much in his past and blaming bad behavior on it. People can rise from a bad childhood. I did. My father has tried to kill me on several occasions when I was a child. He abused me, my mother and my sisters physically, emotionally and verbally. I rose above it and I am successful. I'm not violent or have anger issues. I've worked out. You cannot let the past control you. You have to rise above it. He needs to seek counseling.
 
Sounds like he has a lot of other issues besides you and your friends. The fact about his father also means that he never had an example of husband/dad growing up. I would definitely seek counseling otherwise you may honestly have a very short marriage.
 
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