Husband has been hitting porn sites and chat rooms really hard?

I think it's best to be open and honest in a relationship. You should approach him and tell him that you know; but don't start a fight. Just ask why he has been doing this and tell him how it makes you feel. You guys should work together to reach a solution that will work for you both. I think to a certain extent it is being a man...he will always look. But when it become an obsession or to much then it needs to be brought up...in my opinion.
 
If it bothers you tell him you know and ask him to stop. If it isn't a problem and you are just watching to see what he is doing then don't say anything. I got news for you though, he is probably going to mad that you are watching him, he isn't going to stop he will just find a way to do it without you knowing. I know it is hard but you might have to find a way to deal with it. I would set clear limits on the chat rooms though.
 
His sexual hunger hasn't got to have a limit.
You have to treat him in a much better way personally as well as mentally.
 
Yes i would and i would also say we need to go to a therapist and get this obsession stopped before it ruins our relationship all together. I will not tolerate this. It is cheating to me.
 
<------ sighs and shakes his head

I assume your husband knows you do not approve of him watching porn. Does this upset you that he watches porn? Or do you just like "watching" him? Maybe there is something lacking in the sex department and that's why he goes to porn and chat rooms. Talk to him. What good does it do to tell US about it without talking to him, too?
 
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