Husband chatting/texting other women. Doesn't know why i'm upset? has not

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Brenda

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stopped. Won't talk what to do? I told him that it bothered me, he has not stopped. He keeps saying I should not have looked on the computer, which lead to me looking at his cellphone. I know that I should not have, but I have nothing to hide, thought married couples shared everything. We have two kids...
I asked him why and he will not say anything...He will not tell me...no these are not my friends they are chat room people. He says he loves me and wants his family... that he does this because he is bored and thinks its fun....the problem is he give out his cell number
 
He uses that whole......why were you looking on my computer/phone crap because he knows he's guilty and he's trying to put some of that off onto you.
I share everything with my husband, I don't care if he looks at anything of mine.
He's a jerk, don't let him turn it around on you.
 
I've gone through this too. To the point of him setting up profiles on dating sites. I'm a good hacker:) He says nothing ever happened and nobody contacted him. That it gave him a rush. He also loves women and flirts with them all young and old. Thinks he's don juan. He has also cheated. So don't think it is nothing. Some times just going out without saying when you'll be back, and doing things on your own makes them think that you too are desirable and fun and when he doesn't have you wrapped around his finger they realize what they have
 
Listen if you have to ask a questions about him then maybe he is unhappy. For what reasons is unknown. If you know you do what you suppose to do as a wife, mother, and women then don't stress about it cause realistic your kids come first and they need a healthy mother. Men come a dime a dozen. Take care of you and do you cause Karma is a bitch!!!!
 
I would be very upset. Did he tell you why he does it, knowing that it bothers you? I would ask him and hopefully your marriage is important enough to him that he will take your feelings into account.
 
He is right you shouldn't invade his privacy. BUT you are MARRIED which changes things. He should not be chatting or texting other women at all especially strangers..(family friends, relatives..ok) So really you should not have even had to feel the necessity to check his phone. He is cheating. Trust me, if it isn't going on now it will be soon.
 
he just doesnt understand. as long as hes just talking to them and having fantasies what does that hurt? as long as he doesnt visit them you should be fine, you dont need to check his stuff, i mean if you have a family and you share everything wouldnt want to have the smallest things to yourself? hes not necessarily cheating, or he could be but who knows. if he has a fast track check where he visits and if it doesnt match up to his daily schedule be worried. dont confront him unless you know what hes doing.
 
you are married and have 2 kids and think married couples share everything? wow. huh. that's about as dumb of a statement as i've ever heard.
 
You Shouldn't Worry Too Much!.. They Might Just Be Friends!..

Maybe Some investigating would be smart.. If You Find Out That Nothings Happening.. Just Relax!.. If Its Suspicious!.. Confront Him Again And Tell Him That You Uncomfortable With him Talking to another woman secretly!.. If he Says That There Just Friends Ask Him To Arrange Dinner 4 the three of them.. If They're Only Friends.. He Sould'nt mind!


Hope I Helped.!

And Good Luck!xxxxxx
 
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