Husband abandoned me and left me with a destroyed car with car payments...?

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Rose M

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Our car got messed up while he was using it. Well, his story is some kids must have messed it up but it looks like it was crashed or someone had something against him.
The back window was bashed in completely,
one of the lights (they are those lights that go up and down) won't come up,
tail lights don't seem to work,
and the passenger door won't open because it was dented in right right where it would bend to open.

Right now it is basically useless to me and I don't have a license anyway.
I got the car because we needed a car but it was supposed to be my husband's job to drive it since he got to pick it (that was our deal).

well, the car payments are 150 every other Thursday (I know.. a lot).

I can not afford this on my own...
I am currently looking for work but no matter where I work I can't afford rent, bills, AND car payment with insurance...

I have no idea what to do.
I can't afford the car payments
and I'm not sure if my husband plans to come back.
He didn't take any of his stuff
and I call him when I know he is working to ask if he is coming home
and he will say that he will
and then never come.

I'm already depressed that my husband is off doing whatever (probably having an affair based on certain events that have happened lately)
while I am at home, almost homeless, and scared.
 
let repo man take car, it is useless to you
sell hubbies stuff
get a jobbie jobbie

something has to give: your basic needs are food and housing.
 
Well, if the car is under his name since he is working, stop making payments on it. This guy sounds like a real winner. Leave him. Seriously. I am sure you could do better than that! Oh, and get your license and a job. You are definitely going to need to start taking care of yourself because it doesn't sound like he is going to do it. I'm sorry.
 
Get a loan. Live in an apartment. sell all your stuff that you don't need so you will get more money. ask family for help
 
1 got family? i hope so
2 get a job
3 get it touch with his job and tell them he can pick up his stuff on the mext week end
4 talk to loan people

gd luck
 
OK, so first. Your parents, your siblings? Ask them to lend you money until you can pay them back. So get a job, one that pays well and isn't torture, at the very least. I'd divorce him. The kind of guy who does that doesn't realize that life has consequences.
 
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