I dont know what it is about me, but I know I have some intimacy issues. I am straight, and i am without a doubt into men. But whenever I feel in anyway that somone is getting close i freeze up and avoid. I am 21 and a virgin and its getting to a point where I really want to be in a secure relationship but am have issues getting one. I dont have any past issues relationship wise, becasue i never was in one ever. I dont know how to get started...where to meet people and just open myself up to someone. Everytime I see a couple walking I feel a little something empty in me...as if i'm really missing out. I need advise, help and feel a little embarrassed mentioning this to my friends.