Cindy Smith
New member
How do I handle my ex who's talking all suggestively to me? Like what do I do/say to put him in his place like a confident self assured girl who's just like "Whatever, man" without coming off as I care too much. But wants to be respected. We used to talk like that ALL the time, all rude and lewd and sexy to each other, but that's when we were TOGETHER. I want to be like, "take the hint, boy". Telling me to stop talking to him is not what I'm seeking here, so if that's all you got to say, no thanks.
For example, on IM (did I handle myself well enough? I don't want to accidentally come off as pathetic)
Him: Well, I’m still going to say sexy stuff around you
Him: Hope you don’t find it disrespectful
Me: Maybe you shouldn’t. Would you do that to your friends? And I don’t mean the online ones, I mean in person. Just treat me like you would them.
Him: I haven’t had sex with my friends
Me: And you’re not having sex with me anymore
Him: We’ll seeeee
Me: Don’t get your b*ner up, I mean hopes up
Him: Haha
Me: But seriously, don’t be pawing at me.
Him: I’ll try
Me: You’re not a 14 year old boy drowning in a sea of hormones. Control yourself.
Him: =S
And a couple minutes later:
Him: I also can’t help where my eyes go sometimes…It’s not that you make it easy on me
Me: I’ll wear a turtleneck and chest compressor then Just for you
Him: Thanks, I guess
For example, on IM (did I handle myself well enough? I don't want to accidentally come off as pathetic)
Him: Well, I’m still going to say sexy stuff around you
Him: Hope you don’t find it disrespectful
Me: Maybe you shouldn’t. Would you do that to your friends? And I don’t mean the online ones, I mean in person. Just treat me like you would them.
Him: I haven’t had sex with my friends
Me: And you’re not having sex with me anymore
Him: We’ll seeeee
Me: Don’t get your b*ner up, I mean hopes up
Him: Haha
Me: But seriously, don’t be pawing at me.
Him: I’ll try
Me: You’re not a 14 year old boy drowning in a sea of hormones. Control yourself.
Him: =S
And a couple minutes later:
Him: I also can’t help where my eyes go sometimes…It’s not that you make it easy on me
Me: I’ll wear a turtleneck and chest compressor then Just for you
Him: Thanks, I guess