Michelle Mousey
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Hey im 16 and my sister is 22. I love her to death and her fiance is really great to me and he's like a big brother. i think they are sometimes good together, but she has anger issues and hes really immature my sister isn't ready for kids, and she doesn't really ever want one but he is pressuring her to have one, and i know he wont be a big help when he wont even help around the house. She hasn't been diagnosed but where pretty sure she has bi-polar disorder because diseases like that run in the family and she just wouldn't be able to handle kids. Anyways they have set there date for there wedding November of this year, shes having a small wedding even thought shes dreamed about a big wedding for years, and both him and my sister have good jobs they could afford it, i just think shes settling. Truthfully i don't believe there in love i think my sister is just co dependent on him and doesn't want to give up her life style, and he is to attached to having a woman do everything for him. I find it a controlling, angry relationship and i don't want her to get married without thinking everything threw and getting some couples and individual counseling first. I really care about both of them i want them to be happy i just don't know how to talk to my sister about this without her getting angry, any tips? or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated.