James Ford
New member
When I was in my teenage years I was overweight and though I knew how to socialize well around guys that ability never translated to girls, due to my insecurity about my weight.
In college I remained very shy around girls but hooked up a few times with overweight girls who I considered to be in my league. I wasn't altogether unhappy, I enjoyed my classes and my friends were awesome, they will be lifelong friends of mine.
After college however I became very depressed because my friends were in different states and my job was much less fun than the college lifestyle. I ended up dropping a ton of weight, all of my weight. For the first time in my life I was considered slim and after getting the excess skin removed I was a new man.
For the first time I was starting to pick up average and slightly above average women. However, a new problem emerged when I realized I become insanely nervous when intimate with these women. Nervous to the point that I start to shake uncontrollably and have to either leave or ask them to leave.
I only get nervous like this in intimate situations with women and do not want to take any drugs
that may be harmful long term. Any advice/suggestions would be appreciated, thanks.
I really think my nerves are due to a lack of experience - I am basically a virgin, just had sex a couple times with a few overweight girls in college. Should I get a call girl until I lose my nerves?
In college I remained very shy around girls but hooked up a few times with overweight girls who I considered to be in my league. I wasn't altogether unhappy, I enjoyed my classes and my friends were awesome, they will be lifelong friends of mine.
After college however I became very depressed because my friends were in different states and my job was much less fun than the college lifestyle. I ended up dropping a ton of weight, all of my weight. For the first time in my life I was considered slim and after getting the excess skin removed I was a new man.
For the first time I was starting to pick up average and slightly above average women. However, a new problem emerged when I realized I become insanely nervous when intimate with these women. Nervous to the point that I start to shake uncontrollably and have to either leave or ask them to leave.
I only get nervous like this in intimate situations with women and do not want to take any drugs
that may be harmful long term. Any advice/suggestions would be appreciated, thanks.
I really think my nerves are due to a lack of experience - I am basically a virgin, just had sex a couple times with a few overweight girls in college. Should I get a call girl until I lose my nerves?