It's been about 6 months since I've seen some of my family, nd another year since I've seen the rest. So this July my family is havinga big birthday party for about three people in the family. There's probably going to be about 20 or 30 adults and 5-10 kids. They're all going to have plenty of stories to tell but I want to mingle and talk to everyone. How should I mingle? And should I help out with blowing up balloons and stuff to talk with someone? Also, what should I wear? How should I wear my hair? How should I look to be approachable? Thanks. Also, how do I start a conversation with someone on my aunts side of the family who I barely talk to? THANKS!!