My gf and I used to date, then after about 4 months, we decided to start our sex lives. We were enjoying it good or so I thought, that is untill one day she takes me aside and says she wants to break up. Turns out she wasn't ready for sex and she wasn't going to tell me because it was makingme happy. We stayed seperated for about a month, but got back together since we still love each other. The only change is no sex, because she finds it scary. I was wondering is there a way I can change her mind on sex, or anyways to make her feel comfortable with sex?.