How to let him know I want to have sex?

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So I realllllyyyy want to have sex with my boyfriend. I've been having these crazy urges to just do it with him, Sometimes I've woke up at night sweating it's so bad and I really want to give myself away but he told me no when I asked him to have sex with me :[ what do I doo?
 
just like a guy needs to respect his girl when she says she isn't ready, we've got to do the same.

have sex with yourself...what else can you do?
 
even if you do want to have sex with him, its not a one part thing, its a two part thing. i read a book about a boy who wanted to have a sex with a girl and she didn't want to because she was raped by someone in Macdonald's . late she becomes pregnant and kills herself, as you can see from this answer, even though you want to make love with him, its a two part thing and you cant force it upon him. Maybe you should try to fulfill your needs so you can wait as long as your boyfriend needs
 
Jennifer, 99.9% of all men would have had sex with you in a heart beat when you asked them. The fact that he doesn't and perhaps wants to wait is very rare for a guy. So you might have a real keeper here if you know what i mean. So I suggest you get control of your hormones and be patient. Besides you can always masturbate right?
 
well, talk to him about it. express how you've been feeling. if he still says no, you have to respect his decision. if you love him, you'd be willing to wait until hes ready
 
Did you ask him why he didn't want to ?

By the way, be prepared for when you start having sex. Have the guy use a condom. Make sure you both are responsible and have good hygiene. Talk about what will happen the two of you conceive a child.

I'm not trying to spoil the fun because I think it's ok - just think you should have an answer to those questions first.

So anyway, if he has a good reason then maybe you can come to an agreement. But even if he isn't your first, think about those things.

Also remember there are other things you can do.
 
after making out, whisper in his ear, "I want you."
that should work. Consider your age, though.
 
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