How to handle woman texting and chatting with my husband?

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rebekkah

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She is the new girlfriend of one of his friends and they are texting a lot more than I'm comfortable with. He works nights so we are apart a lot and while he's at work they text back and forth a lot. While I trust him, I feel like an overly friendly woman who says things like "you can tell me things you can't tell your wife" is a threat. I don't want to confront anyone as there isn't anything to confront about but I do want to prevent anything from happening. Do I befriend her (keep your friends close and your enemies closer), avoid her and don't speak to her when we do cross paths? I'm out of my league here.
 
Three words: Beat Her A$$

Men are dumb when it comes to stuff like this. SHE on the other hand knows exactly what she's going. End it and end it now.

The End
 
Uh, she sounds like a bitch.

ANYWAYS.

Tell your hubby your concerns, tell him that she's making you uncomfortable and if he would stop talking to her (or tell her to ask her OWN boyfriend to talk all night) you would appreciate it.

If you befriend her, you might just be giving her more access to your home and your hubby. She obviously doesn't respect the marriage unit, and befriending her will make you more the fool. Call her game right away.

There's no reason for her to be texting your husband except to flirt.
 
Tell him, to stop talking to her.

Tell her to back the fuck up.

If she doesnt, fuck her up.

Put your foot down, defend whats yours. Plus, guys love it when there woman goes all defensive about them.
 
I have two pieces of advice for you (1) yes, I think you should befriend her; I totally buy into the addage keep your friends close and your enemies closer (2) I think you need to set clearly defined parameters with your husband about what is appropraiate an inappropriate in platonic relationships. Yes, you trust him, BUT you need to define what intimacy is. If he is sharing his innermost (in other words intimate) thoughts with another female, is that APPROPRIATE for a person in a committed relationship. I understand and commiserate wihth your feeling threatened. You have good reason to. Modern technology has opened up new and creative ways for people to be unfaithful; different levels even. Your biggest ally is communication, honesty, love and respect. Good luck!!!
 
Seems like you must be going to school now with those crossed arms you have . Now Mom , you know better than to look at me like that , just cause I kissed him !! lol...lol...or I will just in good fun !!
 
the best thing to do is to surround your husband with all the love in the world so he doesn't feel the need to turn to another woman. I am really sorry that you have to go through this but i do believe that if you keep your relationship filled with love, he won't leave you for another woman no matter how hard she tries.

I really hope things go well for you. Best of luck :)
 
How to handle the woman? No, no, you need to handle the husband. There is more than one way to cheat. Having a woman confidant is not acceptable. Period.
 
Your husband is the one you need to be talking to instead of the other woman. If he doesn't answer, she will soon learn he isn't interested; if he keeps answering, things are already heating up. Tell his friend that his girlfriend is texting and chatting with your husband too much and they are getting too cozy. Ask him to help you find out what is going on.
 
This is a simple one. Wait till he is in the shower and if this is so innocent as they are playing it to be. Take that text message and forward it to her man :-)
 
No! You tell that possible home wrecking (!*@# to back the (@*#^ off!

You tell your husband she and he are making you uncomfortable. How would he like it if the shoes was on the other foot? Don't think he would care for it.

That got damn line about "you can tell me things you can't tell your wife" was a dead give away and my foot would be right up her ...well you get the idea.

Befriend her!?!? Oh yes like I said my foot would befriend her if our paths met. Gad I hate people like her, I truly do! There are millions of single men out there, but NO! Go after the married one.

Hon you have all the right in the world at this point to confront both of them.

Best of wishes and I do hope your husband comes to his senses!
 
"I feel like an overly friendly woman who says things like "you can tell me things you can't tell your wife" is a threat."

The response to that is "Why would I want to tell you things I wouldn't tell my wife?"

He's the one who's going to need to set boundaries with her - hopefully you and he have a good enough relationship that you can tell him what's bothering you and why, and he respects your relationship enough to take your concerns seriously.
 
"I feel like an overly friendly woman who says things like "you can tell me things you can't tell your wife" is a threat."

The response to that is "Why would I want to tell you things I wouldn't tell my wife?"

He's the one who's going to need to set boundaries with her - hopefully you and he have a good enough relationship that you can tell him what's bothering you and why, and he respects your relationship enough to take your concerns seriously.
 
You better do something quick! I had a woman friend that was sweetly inviting me to her place. She requested help from me to help her install a ceiling fan, because her boyfriend was out on a long distance job. That's how it all starts out, so sweet and innocent. Sneaky, sneaky, sneaky to hell, crazy people out there.
 
You better do something quick! I had a woman friend that was sweetly inviting me to her place. She requested help from me to help her install a ceiling fan, because her boyfriend was out on a long distance job. That's how it all starts out, so sweet and innocent. Sneaky, sneaky, sneaky to hell, crazy people out there.
 
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