How to end sex after break up?

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We broke up a while ago. We decided to stay friends but when we are together things go very intense and we end up having sex. It's been three times already. I know it's not right. How can we still be friends? I'm still in love with him.
 
well it sounds like he is still into you and u r still into him so just ask him back out if he doesnt already have a gf i mean come on dont tell me u didnt think of that urself
 
you sound like meeeee. he broke up with me and pretty much every time we hung out it would seem fine but me still having feeling for him and him caring about me/just being a guy... we always end up having sex. went on for months after the break up but recently the last time it was like goodbye type deal he's ignoring me and avoiding me which is not what either of us want but it really is needed. I believe we'll be friends again we just really need time or maybe when one of us is in a new relationship. It's so hard :( I hate it.
 
It's simple. You can't be friends with him. You need to end all communication with him. I know it hurts and you still care about him, but you're only hurting yourself in this. You're keeping yourself from moving on and finding someone else. I know that after breaking up we miss that attention and their presence, but sometimes we need to do this. If you can't do that yet, don't hang out with him alone. Hang out with friends or in public places till you've weaned yourself off of him. Apparently you all broke up for a reason.
 
That's the reason you keep getting intimate with him, you still love him.
Did he break up with you or was it mutual break?
Time to have a talk with him, tell him how you feel and ask how he feels about you. Don't end up getting hurt and used, if you both still are in love fine. But if you want to be just friends now, its up to you to break the off the sex.
 
So what? If you're both consenting adults, why not? He may be using you for sex, but you are using him, too. Unless it's an abusive relationship, more power to ya!
 
Tell him you either need him to commit to you and try again or you have to move on. Sex with the ex is bad news, cause you usually end up feeling bad afterward.
If he still loves you then he will want to try again. If he doesn't, he will keep you around as a friend and keep using you for sex, like he is right now.
 
Stop spending time alone with him. Actually, stop talking to him in general for now. Wait until you're over him before you attempt a friendship. If you must spend time with him, bring other people along. Or go to a public place. Get a hobby/new friend (not a new boyfriend) so you have something to focus on besides this guy.
 
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