I'm starting to feel pressure. My partner has told me that when we're in a 2 bed place we will have his parents to stay even though I cant cope with that because i have bipolar and aspergers syndrome. I haven't been given a choice, him and his mum have just TOLD me that its going to happen despite my mental health problems.
He has also TOLD me that we'll be inviting his totally evil sister that has been estranged from him and his family for 6yrs to our wedding. I CANNOT get married with her there, I tried to compromise with my partner, but hes just said that she would be invited despite all my reasonable concerns.
Being dictated to like this is worrying me, we should be discussing and compromising, instead of him and his parents telling me how things are going to be.
How can our relationship progress how we'd like when i've got these developing worries?
He has also TOLD me that we'll be inviting his totally evil sister that has been estranged from him and his family for 6yrs to our wedding. I CANNOT get married with her there, I tried to compromise with my partner, but hes just said that she would be invited despite all my reasonable concerns.
Being dictated to like this is worrying me, we should be discussing and compromising, instead of him and his parents telling me how things are going to be.
How can our relationship progress how we'd like when i've got these developing worries?