I get told often why are you here you should be a model . You should be doing more with your life you are such a pretty girl. To me when they say that it really offends me I am okay with how my life is . I had an oppurtunity to model when I was 19 and turned it down . I have body image issues and don't want to model . How do I nicely tell people I don't want them to tell me to model or harass me about it ?