juswondering
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I've started going to our university gym just now, and there must be a lot of cute girls taking Summer classes because a lot of them keep going... It seems like a great set-up, too, because the gym is, in general, fairly empty so it should be easy to make an approach... Yet... How?
I'm not generally too shy about making an approach towards a girl, it's just that I'm having a problem with the gym aspect. I feel like any way that I approach a girl in the gym, it signals to her that I have interest... Which, I suppose, is the point... But if you're a girl, wouldn't it be a bit awkward if a guy started talking to you in a gym?
Also, I'm confident in my looks, and people (who are not related to me) have told me I'm handsome, but I still almost get this sense that unless I'm knockout-looking, a girl would find it weird that a guy approaches her in the gym. (However, when I think about it in the reverse... If a girl approached me in the gym, she certainly would not have to be a perfect dime for me to find that to be a cool thing for her to do).
Thoughts?
I'm not generally too shy about making an approach towards a girl, it's just that I'm having a problem with the gym aspect. I feel like any way that I approach a girl in the gym, it signals to her that I have interest... Which, I suppose, is the point... But if you're a girl, wouldn't it be a bit awkward if a guy started talking to you in a gym?
Also, I'm confident in my looks, and people (who are not related to me) have told me I'm handsome, but I still almost get this sense that unless I'm knockout-looking, a girl would find it weird that a guy approaches her in the gym. (However, when I think about it in the reverse... If a girl approached me in the gym, she certainly would not have to be a perfect dime for me to find that to be a cool thing for her to do).
Thoughts?