Ok so I have been with my girlfriend for a few months, I feel like its going somewhere. I want to stop using condoms because lets face it, it isn't the same wearing them, and shes on the pill. Im a huge STD/AIDsaphobe and I want us to both get tested. How do I bring it up to her? I don't want it to sound like I think shes a slut or anything. But shes in the hospital all the time with problems, shes sick all the time, and she has a "blood disorder". Am I being a jerk? Should I just go ahead and stop using condoms without getting tested?
