How much effort do you put into the opposite sex?

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Guys do you just show a little interest and let her come running
or do you linger about with poems and chocolate in hopes that your undying love will win you the woman of your dreams.

Women do u go for the guy who showers you with affection
or go mad for the more mysterious guys who "let you wonder"
 
Not too much. I don't just sit there waiting for guys to come after me - I do talk and get in touch, I prefer shy guys so I have to do some stuff myself. But so far I've never asked anybody out and I was pursued though not very aggressively and I did my share once the relationship started.
 
In the flirtation stages just before dating, I usually act like an arrogant bastard and make sure to slightly offend her at least once. Then when I know I've got her attention, I show her my true self. She always loves me for who I really am --not the stupid a-hole she first thought I was. Chicks dig men of mystery.
 
Ive tried both ways and they both work the opposite.Being nice,giving presents, flowers etc.does not get you the girl,its almost like they don't respect a guy that is too nice.

Being an azz, not calling them, seeing them when I have the time, and just being an all around arrogant jerk gets you the girl.I don't why, I think it may be that they like the challenge.

I say you have to stay in the middle.Be nice, but not too nice, buy her a present but nothing too extravagant,get her coffee in the morning, but not ever morning.Its a two way street baby.GL
 
Ive tried both ways and they both work the opposite.Being nice,giving presents, flowers etc.does not get you the girl,its almost like they don't respect a guy that is too nice.

Being an azz, not calling them, seeing them when I have the time, and just being an all around arrogant jerk gets you the girl.I don't why, I think it may be that they like the challenge.

I say you have to stay in the middle.Be nice, but not too nice, buy her a present but nothing too extravagant,get her coffee in the morning, but not ever morning.Its a two way street baby.GL
 
lol men trying to act mysterious come across as pricks were as man who treat you good but does not be a walk over either is just right
 
Oh oh, you forgot the same sex part. I hope they won't blast you here, he he he.

I would say I give it 50% just in case it doesn't work I have 50% extra to use, he he he.
 
I am the kind of girl who likes the thrill of the chase. I don't want a guy to be all over me (clingy).

Before I got married, I always made the 1st move on guys.
 
neither... if i like you i express interest. if he likes me i expect him to do the same. the cat and mouse game is really old!
 
I appreciate the simplicity of a woo. The invite to a cup of coffee rather than an extravagant meal. The occasional store bought card that says I really like you. The show of a respectful friendship with a
potentail relationship. An email that simply says Hi how are you today? I have never been one to chase any man. And I dont like the superficiality of courting.
 
I am the kind of girl who likes the thrill of the chase. I don't want a guy to be all over me (clingy).

Before I got married, I always made the 1st move on guys.
 
None of your scenarios sound the least bit descriptive of a healthy marriage, so my answer is "None of the above." You do know you posted this in Marriage & Divorce, right?
 
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