I ask because I don't want to hurt her (not that it really matters though). I deleted her the day she broke up with me. I haven't blocked her, and she can see my info/profile picture if she visits my page because she's in my network (university), and my network privacy settings are a little more relaxed. I have nothing on my page that acknowledges her in any way - no subtle jabs, certainly no pictures of us -- NO GAMES.
I check on her page once in a while - exes do that. I find she's playing games with me. If not me, than some other poor sap, but games for sure.
I've just continued on with my business, and done nothing in response. In the old days, I loved to fight, so I'd bomb back. But I understand enough about BPD to know that's a fight I would never win.
How does ignoring her, but not blocking her affect her -- is it the right thing to do?
I check on her page once in a while - exes do that. I find she's playing games with me. If not me, than some other poor sap, but games for sure.
I've just continued on with my business, and done nothing in response. In the old days, I loved to fight, so I'd bomb back. But I understand enough about BPD to know that's a fight I would never win.
How does ignoring her, but not blocking her affect her -- is it the right thing to do?