How long should i make him wait for sex ?

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Ive been dating this guy for a couple of weeks and he keeps on talkin about how quick he and his ex started having sex , and just random stuff like that lol. And he tried it on with me one night , but we got inturrupted, however, my friends are all telling me i need to wait a while cos im a virgin, and have no clue what im doing.

I dont even know if he knows im a virgin , would telling him put him off ? and how long should we wait?

(Im 15, hes 18)
 
i think you should have sex with him right away or he might go out and find some tramp to do it for him and come home and have sex with you and give you alote of std's and all that soo i think right now and go as wild as you can
 
wow ok honestly DONT DONT have sex soo soon. i mean its ONLY BEEN A COUPLE OF WEEKS!!! thats not long AT ALL.
if he is hinting at it THIS EARLY into the relationship he just wants ass from you. no joke. ive seen this ALL TOO many times in the past, and you dont see it now and all that, but seriously he just wants to screw ya. WAIT hold it off. atleast till ur 16...
THE DUDE IS 18... thats wrong.
 
please dont do it. please. what you have is so precious and should not be something you have to ask a public info forum to decide. he seems like a typical 18 year old male and thats the problem. do you want your first time to be typical? please see how special you are and just put it on a back burner. please.
 
well waiting until your 18 would be nice since it is considered statutory rape if he has sex with someone younger that 18! If he truly cares he will wait anyways so you will find out what hes after if you wait at least a couple months. Although I would say when your married would be the ideal time to start having sex.
 
If you want to make sure it's not all about sex. Wait longer than a few weeks. I'd say give the relationship 3 months before you have sex. By that time you will know if he's into you or not. You don't want to get hurt. If he bails and isn't willing to wait, then obviously he was only about the sex. Good luck!
 
Your 15...wait till your at least 17 then at least you'll have more experience of dating and guys.You can better make your mind up about wether you feel you are ready to take that next special step.You only get one first time...so make it special.Good luck :)
 
You're too young to be having sex if you need to ask this question. End of story. You're only 15, him pushing you to have sex is rape in almost every state of the US/country. If you've only been dating for a couple weeks and he's pushing you to have sex/dating a 15 year old, it's pretty likely that he's using you. Make him wait a couple months, tell him no means no, even a month...if he stays around that long for sex then he's in it for you. All I'm saying is you're probably going to get your heart broken.

You're a virgin and you don't want to regret your first time, it stays with you forever. Your friends are RIGHT, listen to them! Plus you are only 15, you have plenty of time to have sex. You want to be 100% ready and if you're asking this question on yahoo answers you're definitely not ready!

I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, it's just facts of life and the honest truth. I wish you the best of luck!
 
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