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pinkfirefly73
Guest
i heard it was only for like a minute and i was just wondering if that was true and why that is?
Depends on a lot of things including his physiology, his mental state, how recently and frequently he has had sex/masturbated, etc.
Largely, it depends on how sensitive he is down there. Some guys are really sensitve and really have to sweat to last more than 30 seconds of constant pumping, other guys I know say they aren't sensitive enough and they have trouble finishing at all -- they go for 45 minutes straight and can still never get there.
It can also vary with one individual, sometimes a guy can last much longer on one occasion than he did on another. It all depends.
What I find to be a real shame is how much pressure women put on guys to last a certain amount of time or please them in a certain way, and they expect their man to satisfy them first and foremost. It's all take and no give -- when in fact the best solution would be to HELP him find a way to last longer and treat him like a teammate rather than a coin-operated dildo machine. Lovemaking should be approached as a two-way street, not a selfish act of "okay, it's your job to please me" personal gratification.
EDIT: after reading some of the answers, seems like a lot of women have a misconception that guys can willfully control when they bust it, and they "choose" to come early or hold it off. It's not that easy. You pretty much come when you come and you can't control it, unless you stop for a breather.
Largely, it depends on how sensitive he is down there. Some guys are really sensitve and really have to sweat to last more than 30 seconds of constant pumping, other guys I know say they aren't sensitive enough and they have trouble finishing at all -- they go for 45 minutes straight and can still never get there.
It can also vary with one individual, sometimes a guy can last much longer on one occasion than he did on another. It all depends.
What I find to be a real shame is how much pressure women put on guys to last a certain amount of time or please them in a certain way, and they expect their man to satisfy them first and foremost. It's all take and no give -- when in fact the best solution would be to HELP him find a way to last longer and treat him like a teammate rather than a coin-operated dildo machine. Lovemaking should be approached as a two-way street, not a selfish act of "okay, it's your job to please me" personal gratification.
EDIT: after reading some of the answers, seems like a lot of women have a misconception that guys can willfully control when they bust it, and they "choose" to come early or hold it off. It's not that easy. You pretty much come when you come and you can't control it, unless you stop for a breather.
It totally depends on the guy and the
situation.
If he is extremely horny he might
not last too long although then again
he may hold on till he can't any longer
on the other hand if it isn't good sex or
if he isn't too horny then he might not
cum for a while as he needs to get more
horny although some men can make
themselves cum pretty quickly. It really
does depend on the guy and what he is like
(and what he actually likes and does not)
and the situation. In addition if the guy has
not masturbated or has not had sex in a
while then he is, stereotypically, more likely
to last a shorter length of time in comparison
with someone constantly having sex etc
although this is not always true.
situation.
If he is extremely horny he might
not last too long although then again
he may hold on till he can't any longer
on the other hand if it isn't good sex or
if he isn't too horny then he might not
cum for a while as he needs to get more
horny although some men can make
themselves cum pretty quickly. It really
does depend on the guy and what he is like
(and what he actually likes and does not)
and the situation. In addition if the guy has
not masturbated or has not had sex in a
while then he is, stereotypically, more likely
to last a shorter length of time in comparison
with someone constantly having sex etc
although this is not always true.
Princesscmg28
New member
it all depends on the guy...my bf has lasted a minute yes but he has also last an hour. it all depends...
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massadaman
Guest
From penetration or from the start of foreplay? When I was a young stallion it was about 45 minutes of foreplay, then 15-20 minutes of penetrative sex.
Now it's more like 5 minutes and no foreplay. I want to get the job done and go to sleep.
Now it's more like 5 minutes and no foreplay. I want to get the job done and go to sleep.
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Lysster
Guest
The good ones last 30 minutes. Shitty one last 30 seconds.
SO DONT THINK SEX IS BORING AND U HAVE TOO KEEP IT UP.....HE WILL DO THAT FOR YOU 
Every guy is different. Some can last 1 minute...some ten minutes....some an hour. Guys are easily excited and take less to become stimulated. On average, sex between couples in most surveys I've read last about 5-7 minutes. And I also read most girls need 10-13 minutes to achieve orgasm. Everyone's different.
RedWingsDIEHARD
New member
depends on how sexually active they are. if they are used to having sex a lot thn they can last anywhere from an hour to 2 hours sometimes more. if they arent sexually active they can last for about 3 min