We both hurt each other, and were unfaithful. (I was the last one who cheated, started as revenge but ended up taking advantage of him) I am trying to make it work, and he is giving me time to do so. Though he says all the time I dont want him or dont love him. Sex life has become pasty, and he is detached from me emotionally, this is our fourth year of marriage no kids. I want to make this work, I am not cheating, I am trying to do everything. Doing better things around the house, keeping myself looking good, trying to lose weight, doing things with him, but I dont even know where to begin as far as how to rebuild something like this. Advice from married people/committed relationships? No opinions about whether you think we will last or not. This is a serious problem, and I am asking for advice.
Starfish: I forgot to mention we are going to marriage counseling once we have more money, I am not just trying to do superficial things. I am also changing myself as a person, emotionally and mentally because I am a very insecure person and kind of latch on to people and become super drmatic, so I am addressing these things as well.
Starfish: I forgot to mention we are going to marriage counseling once we have more money, I am not just trying to do superficial things. I am also changing myself as a person, emotionally and mentally because I am a very insecure person and kind of latch on to people and become super drmatic, so I am addressing these things as well.