How do you not be clingy when in a relashionship?

[Dan H]

You get there by figuring out that you have *within yourself* everything you need to survive and be happy. The more of that power you hand over to another person, the more desperate and clingy you will be to try to make sure you don't lose it. Unfortunately, that very behavior is more likely to push the other person away. The source of annoying clinginess is fear: fear of the potential loss of something essential. The more ability you have to meet your own needs, and the more supportive people you have in your life to enrich it, the less desperate you will be to hang onto one particular relationship for dear life, most likely smothering it in the process.

 

[breshathebrat]

Well your first relationships are always clingy but you have to think of one word SPACE have some alone time just regular alone time watching tv, read a book, get ahead n homework stuff like that Sundays can be your away time from eachother
I know it seems like an hour away fom that person seems like an eternity but think of how you feel when you see that person the next day it keeps excitement your relationship cause constantly having a guy n my face ffor 2 months str8 gets annoying I mean when I have to say "its me not you"

 

[Burnsey]

i just love her so much but i dont want to be annoying or clingy. i know she likes me too and ive never really been in a relashionship before (im 17) so i dont really know what to do. just because they dont talk to you every second doesnt mean that they dont like you right? any advice? thanks!