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politicalblonde
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...before marriage? Ok, so I'm not religious or anything like that, but I still have really strong personal values. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 18 because I didn't want to kis someone I didn't love and waste that first kiss on someone who didn't mean much to me. Anyways, I had this first kiss with my ex whom I loved and still do and we were so great together. But then he broke up with me out of the blue and I don't know why because he refused to talk to me or give me any explanation. But his friend told me I was too much of a good girl because he was experienced with other girls and I wouldn't have sex with him. He never asked for it (and I'd have said no if he had) but he would always get really frustrated when we were making out and I could feel he was aroused, so it isn't that hard to believe he wanted it and that may be the reason he dumped me. But what do I do? How can I keep a guy interested and still hold my values? Because, if I really love a guy I don't want him to feel like he's losing out by dating me.
I tried being extra caring. I made him beautiful gifts, like the playing cards I made and decorated for him for christmas with things like a kiss, a hug, a date, end an arguement, etc. And I made him the most amazing card for valentine's day and gave him poems I had written because I write poetry instead of keeping a diary and they were about him. I also texted him regularly to let him know i was thinking of him, i missed him, or I loved him.
What else do I do?
I tried being extra caring. I made him beautiful gifts, like the playing cards I made and decorated for him for christmas with things like a kiss, a hug, a date, end an arguement, etc. And I made him the most amazing card for valentine's day and gave him poems I had written because I write poetry instead of keeping a diary and they were about him. I also texted him regularly to let him know i was thinking of him, i missed him, or I loved him.
What else do I do?