I am a woman, and find it hard to let a man know I want sex. I am not afraid to make the first move (sometimes I am not very subtle either) but often he will think he is just getting a bl*w j*b and just lie there. I have tried a sexy strip, underwear, dressing up in his favourite outfits etc, he tells me he is turned on and gets an erection but then gives me a kiss and cuddle and says "shall we watch the film then?" I can't exactly say "Can I have sex now please?" I have spoke to him about it a few times but he just claims he is tired.... what do I do?