How do you handle lack of sex?

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Ryan

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I've been divorced for about 4 months now and I'm not trying to start another relationship yet. I'm trying to work on myself and what makes me happy, I am trying to better myself and get my head right after the divorce.
The problem is I've always had a huge libido and self stimulation doesn't seem to help the problem. I also don't think one night stands or sex without a relationship is right, so I'm not just going to find some chick for a quickie like I used to in my past. Can anyone give a few ways that you handle this?

Also, this is a serious question and something we all deal with. I'm looking for adult answers here.
 
As you are just looking for temporary relief, while you get your head together, I'd just go with the usual standbys, porn and masturbation. Maybe some chat room where you can enjoy cyber sex with some partner. Although, you have to be careful with that, as some 'men' pretend to be women, so they say.
But at least, it will take care of your libido until you get back into the dating pool. Have you any old girlfriends, who may be in a similar situation as you are, and maybe do the Friends with Benefits, type of arrangement?
 
I've been seperated for 6 months now and i totally understand what you mean about casual sex. I've realized that just experiencing new things like hobbies or even taking some courses to keep busy. It has opened my eyes to a whole new world of possibilites without the constant thought of sex lingering.
 
I've been seperated for 6 months now and i totally understand what you mean about casual sex. I've realized that just experiencing new things like hobbies or even taking some courses to keep busy. It has opened my eyes to a whole new world of possibilites without the constant thought of sex lingering.
 
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