How do you find someone special if you don't have a job or a car?

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Love or needs? Which is relevant more if you don't ,I mean don't have a job or a car?
 
Unless you're a student, you need to have a job. Most women (or men) don't want a slacker. The car is debatable.

In the meantime, try meeting people on-line. I met my boyfriend here on Yahoo Answers. I answered his question, he e-mailed me, the rest is history! Good luck!
 
I don't think love or needs has to do much with one another in true love... I think the worry is more... Why should I support you, and work hard, when you won't even get a job? You get to be lazy, and mooch... and I'm supposed to be ok with it?
 
How is finding love relevant to having a car? Okay, to an extent in this society we live in, having a job can affect your prospects - being employed and having money is better than no job/no money - but I think if two people love each other, really genuinely love each other, none of that stuff matters

Im late to all this relationship stuff, but what Ive learned so far about women

They value - confidence, sense of humor, ability to converse, looks

over

job, car, money (to an extent)

Just do the things you like to do, hobbies or whatever, and let things happen
 
well personally I don't think people should be so concerned with having a relationship when they don't have the means to support themselves. Get a job first. For the car thing, some people down own cars and only use bicycles or public transit.
 
I know what you mean. I have a job, but no car. I'm pretty isolated. But I just work as hard as I can so that I can be more independent sometime soon......and I focus on improving myself so that when I do have the chance to meet cool people, I'll be able to interact on their level.
 
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