How do you express your sexuality?

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Katherine F

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When i first realised i was bisexual, i was into expressing the more masculine side of my personality as i wanted to show that i like girls just as much as i like boys, (not very well thought through seeing as it didnt really express how i like boys too) i didnt dress butch but i'd just enjoy making myself look different and more masculine. Then i started spending time with different friends, ones who were more girly and as i'd always loved shopping and makeup, i started becoming more feminine and stopped trying to express my sexuality through what i wore. Now i'm quite unhappy about how i've changed as i feel like theres no way for me to express my bisexuality through how i look, on the one hand, if i appear more masculine i look more into girls and on the other hand if i dress more feminine i look more into girls. Its really bugging me as people automatically assume i'm straight, i wish i could think of a way of appearing bisexual without just stamping the word on my head. Is there actually a way to express bisexuality through how you look?
feminine - more into boys*
 
no expression needed.just be your self dress as always don't be in a hurry.it will happen.look on the web for gay bars in your area or out of town.you find on the web. have fun or go to www.webnaughty and join for free.
 
Why do you care about what people think? If you want to meet girls you can go to a gay bar or a place where there is a mixed crowd of sexualities.
Im bi and people know I am bi as I tell them (or they guess as I am always going on about how a girl is hot or how I think this guy is hot etc.) Strangers don't need to know anything about me.
As for clothing, sometimes I wear boyish things, sometimes womanly....you should try to dress a certain way you should dress how YOU want to how YOU feel comfortable.
I express my sexuality by going to bi clubs or places I know there are a range of sexualities I guess.
I express it by chatting up girls or chatting up guys....I guess?
 
here's an idea wear what you like instead of having some complicated process behind it. i go to a store and pick what i like and wear it and you can express it by flirting with people.
 
Why are you so worried about expressing your sexual orientation through your clothing? You should always dress the way you want to dress. If you go girly, wear a rainbow bracelet, necklace, or something. Somewhere other lesbians can see the colors.Going masculine will probably not attract the boys. Try and do a mixture of both, like a tom boy. Where boys clothes in a girly fashion.
 
its YOUR sexuality. you express it by doing what turns YOU on . alone or with a partner(s). and be yourself. you don't have to embrace a stereotype just because you are LGBT
 
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