i just bought a chocolate touch and my mom won't let me get texting or buy any ringtones so i was wondering if there was another way to get music and ringtones on my phone instead of texting it on there? I tried bitpim but it doesn't recognize my phone and just keeps saying "no phone detected/recognized." how do i get it to work. p.s. i have a mac but you can give directions for a pc if there's no way for it to work on a mac. best answer gets 10 points!!!