How do I spice up my sex life?

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I feel strange asking strangers for advice, but I really don't know where else to go. I need your help ladies.

I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years now. He is in the Navy and got moved to WA. So he had me move here with him. We have been here together for about 2 months now and still have not had sex. We used to have a very active sex life, but now nothing. I am so wound up that I am about to hump the next thing that moves... but he jut isn't in the mood anymore. We are both very stressed, mostly about money, so I guess that probably has something to do with it.

I have even thought about bringing another girl home to get him excited about the idea of getting to play with two girls, but if I do and then he is not giving me enough attention I will just be angry and hate him for it.

What can I do to make him want to touch me again?
 
THIS (a site that doesn't condone sexual posts) isn't the best place for the advice you seek.

Do some research online on how to spice things up. Some options are new positions, new locations, adult toys, role-playing, sex games, erotic meals, porn (for ideas), there are books on things to try also...

Use your imagination...talk to him about the issue. Neither party should be expected to go without for an indefinite period of time (esp if there is no medical issue preventing them from being "intimate"). Either party withholding simply increases the chances the other will eventually stray or leave...
 
Your man has been in the Navy for too long... there's a lot of guys there...so... yeah, if he's taken a bigger interest in men, then there's your problem.
 
You only get one lifetime and you're wasting 3 years of yours with a so-called man who doesn't even want to fuck you. What are you doing babe? Find someone else.
 
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