How do I react to my girlfriends swinging parents?

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I'm in a relatively new relationship (under a year) and my girlfriend and I have been involved in the swinging lifestyle from the start. This is a new dynamic for myself, but my girlfriend has always been around the lifestyle as her parents are also swingers. It's added a very erotic dynamic to our relationship and overall we've had nothing but great experiences.
Recently, her parents relocated to our city so we spend a fair significant amount of time socializing with them. As they've gotten to know me better, they've become more and more open about their lifestyle, experiences etc.. as they also know about our lifestyle. My girlfriend is very open with her parents, which I find refreshing, however still sometimes surprising. Sexuality is openly discussed and experiences are shared. It's sometimes hard not to be somewhat shocked.
Since her parents are new to the area, they asked our thoughts of introducing them to the local scene and events we attend. My girlfriend is all for it, however this is such a new dynamic for me and I'm not sure how to absorb it all.
I don't want to discourage her at all, as this is how she was raised, but I'm wondering where the boundaries are? I'm not quite sure how to ask her as I've never seen a family dynamic like this before? Are there more families like this out there?
 
You should have found out what the boundaries are before now. If not you should have a talk with your girlfriend and ask her about them. You need to get them straight so both of you will know what and what not to do and with whom. You could, of course, bring it up in a conversation with the rest of her family, they should be able to give you some good guidelines.
 
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