I'm not exactly sure if this classifies as a fear of intimacy but whenever I "hook up" with a guy, I immediately hate them afterward. It doesn't matter what I do with the guy, I simply end up hating every guy afterward. It's to the point where I avoid each guy and I've never hooked up with a guy more than once. I've never had a boyfriend or anything. And as hard as this may be to believe, I'm a romantic so it's not that I don't want a relationship. It's not that I'm afraid of commitment. I think that I'm just afraid becoming too intimate with another person. And it doesn't matter if I like the guy or not, not that I've ever actually hooked up with a guy that I particularly like. So maybe it IS that I don't feel comfortable with a guy because I don't fully like them? Anyway, I really hate that I can't be comfortable with a guy anymore once we've hooked up so, how to I get over this?
How do I overcome my fear of intimacy?
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