How do i maturely tell my BF NO to sex?

Scared :(

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he respects me, but i get so scared that hes going to leave me if i dont give him "myself", even though he's told me he would never leave me...in the heat of sexual stimulation, it's hard for me to say no to him, cuz i love making him happpy, but i dont want anymore mistakes to happen(e.g. getting pregnant, not using protection, etc.)
what im trying to ask is there soemthing i can say to him, that would make sense, so that he doesnt push me to do things for him?
ill give best answer when i find someone who truly cares and makes total sense cuz i know there's people who answer questions and its like "please answer the question or dont even give ur two sense"
please no negative comments because what if this was you?
 
Just tell him that true love waits...and if he really respects you he will respect your decision to wait. And take him to a health center or something and let him see the results of what unsafe sex can do to a life.
 
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